If you need to "recover" your RoTLD password when the .RO domain is registered trough Gandi.NET (I say "recover" because you didn't set it in the first place :-)) - do this:
- In the Gandi interface go to Account Management -> Update account information and set "Anti-spam system" to No
- Go to the RoTLD password recovery page and reset your password. Now the password recovery email should have arrived to your inbox.
- (Optional) go back to the Gandi interface and re-enable the anti-spam system